Tuesday, February 7, 2012

33 and 3 days to 38 and 1 day


So here we are at 33 ½ weeks, and I get to leave the hospital on two conditions.  I have to take Procardia twice a day (a low dosage blood pressure medicine that is thought to relax the uterus), and bed rest…the dreaded bed rest, but, it turns out, that bed rest for a week really isn’t so bad, so long as it only lasts a week.  The doctors told me the big thing was to get to 35 weeks, so bed rest it was until 34 weeks and 5 days…

I started out the bed rest doing just that.  Recovering for the hospital stay was actually a little more difficult than I expected.  Being in the hospital bed doing absolutely nothing for 3 days, strangely enough, really makes you tired.  We have an adjustable bed (no we aren’t 60), so that was where I stayed for the next week.  It wasn’t super strict bed rest, as I could shower, sit up, etc…I was really just supposed to stay off my feet as much as possible.  I was at a client’s office the day I ended up going to the hospital, and she was such huge help in making it through my bed rest without going crazy.  She scanned in all the documents I would need, so I was able to do exactly what I would have done that week from the comfort of my adjustable bed J  I kept myself busy with my actual work, and it helped me save some vacation time.  She is a great lady to work with!

At my 34 week appointment, I was still one centimeter, so things didn’t seem to be progressing that quickly.  I finished out my bed rest and watching a lot of TLC and HGTV…again, and I was allowed to go back to work the next Monday…two days before I was 35 weeks.  I was still to take it easy, but most of my restrictions were lifted.  At my 35 week appointment, however, I was told I was two centimeters.  The doctor checking me told me this was actually a good thing because I wouldn’t have to go from zero to ten on the delivery day.  It was exciting to start thinking about my little guy coming!

This is also when I had to start counting contractions.  And, when you have tons of contractions, you do a lot of counting.  I had little pieces of paper in my office, in my car, in my living room, next to bed.  They were everywhere!  I felt like all I did was count contractions!  The little man was moving and grooving, and so was my uterus.  However, they were never regular for more than a couple of hours at a time.  When I would get nervous about it and call, my nurse would be shocked when I told her how many I was having, then I would explain that I had been having lots for a while, so then we would assess the situation a little differently.  Apparently, I had a ridiculous amount of contractions for a ridiculous amount of time.  Also, when you walk around dilating for a few weeks lots of things make an appearance on your tissue if you catch my meaning.  My plug came out slowly over the course of a week or so, and there were plenty of other…umm…snotty things to deal with.  Of course, I made multiple calls to my nurse over this time, and was reassured that this was all normal.  Toby, my phone nurse, is a saint J 

On Friday, September 9th, I thought my water broke in the bathroom of Cinco’s.  We were eating dinner with Brian, Jeni, Lindsey, her husband, Smith, and Mary Beth (who was also very pregnant and jealous of my possible delivery J), so we went up to Northside Forsyth (because it was so close) to get checked out, and turns out, it wasn’t my water breaking, so either I have horrible aim, or pregnancy made me incontinent too among all the other things.  Sure it could have been some other fluid too, but we will never know.  Hospital visit number 2 was under my belt.  And, we even made it back to the restaurant before everyone left!

During the next two weeks, I had several nights when I thought it was time.  I was having tons of contractions that were much more painful, but I would relax, lie down, do some deep breathing, and eventually they would subside.  I would try and go to sleep knowing that if it were true labor, it would wake me up, and, sure enough, I would wake up the next morning still very pregnant.  It was a constant guessing game, and I was a huge mix of emotion.  Nervous, excited, confused, elated, pretty much everything but sad J  I also had all my showers during this time, and was unbelievably blessed by all our friends and family.  We got so many wonderful gifts.  The generosity of everyone was astounding.  We hardly had anything left to buy…which is a very good problem to have!

I went to my 36th and 37th week appointments, and I was growing great and Mac’s heartbeat was sounding fantastic…and at my 37th week, I was three centimeters.  I was dilating at a rate of about a centimeter every two weeks.  At this appointment, my doctor remarked that she probably wouldn’t see me for my 38th week appointment, but I had always thought from the beginning that I would make it to 38 weeks, and it seems that Mac had the same idea.  I don’t know why, but from about August on, people would ask, and I would say that I thought I would go to at least 38 weeks.  No real reason, just a gut feeling.  Another client of mine (who is a wonderful lady) was praying for me to make it to 38 weeks.  I had told her about my first hospital visit, and at her own selection she decided to pray for 38 weeks.  I had not told her that I thought I would make it that far…it was just a coincidence, or, as I like to think, God at work.  So, we surprised the doctor and showed up for our 38th week appointment, and three days later Mac decided it was time to make his debut…

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